Monday, 21 Oct 2019

Jamie Otis Suggests It is ‘Hard’ to View Buddies Have Wholesome Pregnancies Soon after Her Miscarriage


Soon after her 3rd being pregnant reduction, Jamie Otis is obtaining a self-admittedly complicated time balancing her personal grief with her contentment for these she cares about.

Married at Very first Sight alums Otis and Doug Hehner open up up on the latest episode of their Hot Marriage Cool Parents podcast, out Wednesday, about their current miscarriage and how, irrespective of her deep-down assistance for her mates who are now anticipating, the particular reduction has unavoidably impacted Otis’ thoughts in a adverse way.

“One of the most hurtful areas is that I know a large amount of folks who are expecting,” claims the labor and shipping nurse, 32. “My owing day was Aug. eight and I know a person owing Aug. nine, I know a person who’s owing Aug. 21 … I know so a lot of ladies who are owing [around when I was] and we ended up all expecting collectively, so enthusiastic.”

“The toughest component is to just view them go on to have this wholesome being pregnant,” Otis carries on.

“Or to independent oneself from it,” chimes in Hehner, 35.






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I think the worst of it is finally over.🙏🏻 • We left the doctors office around 1:30 yesterday with the medicine in. (The doc places it at your cervix and then you have to lie down for 15-30 min to make sure your body absorbs it all.) I was wondering when and if the medication would work since I was further along so I knew it wasn’t guaranteed to work. But I really don’t want to have to have a D&C.🙏🏻 We went to my in laws to pick up @henleygracehehner and when we came home I had mild cramps but nothing abnormal really. • Around 7pm I began getting the most sharp, excruciating pains all throughout my belly and my back. I’ll spare you the details of what it was like when I went to the bathroom.😢 • All night long I was curled up in fetal position with heating pads on my back and belly. Gracie slept angelically through the night. Almost like she knew mama and dada were sad and in pain and needed a night.👶🏼🌈 • My hubby was by my side for every.single.moment of the stabbing pains and runs to the bathroom. I don’t know what I did to deserve such a loving, kind, thoughtful man but I am so, so thankful for you, @doughehner.❤️ • We’re trying our best to stay positive. We’ve made it through this before – RIP our sweet angel baby, Johnathan👼🏼💙 – and we will make it through this too.🙏🏻 I guess our little Johnny wanted a little brother or sister to play with up in heaven.🙏🏻❤️👼🏼 • Thank you all again for so much support. The love you are sending our way is palpable. We appreciate each and every one of you. We love you guys and are so thankful to know you are thinking of us and praying for us right now. It means more than you’ll ever know.🙏🏻💗 • #pregnancy #loss #awareness #miscarriageawareness #angelbaby #rainbowbaby #positivevibes #positivevibesonly #hopeful #mommyhood #pregnancyproblems #miscarriage #pregnancylossawareness #pregnancyloss #support #miscarriagesupport #1in4 #yourenotalone 🙏🏻😢💗

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So thankful for this little one and her daddy.🙏🏻 Our doc appointment didn’t go well today.😢 • I’m devastated. We’ve had a “failed miscarriage.” Our baby formed and there was an amniotic sac, but while the amniotic sac continued to grow the baby stopped at some point.😰 • We had three options. 1) Wait for my body to miscarry our baby naturally. 2) Go to the hospital and have a D&C. 3) Take medication to help my body miscarry quicker. • I really don’t want to have to go to the OR and have a D&C for obvious reasons. I’d love for my body to just naturally take the proper course, but since we don’t know how long that would take and since there’s a small risk for infection I opted to take the medicine and hope and pray it works so I don’t have to have a D&C.🙏🏻 • I can’t thank you all enough for all the love, support, prayers, and encouragement you’ve sent us. You have no idea how much that has helped both @doughehner & I. You guys are the most amazing community of women & men here on instagram & social media and I hope you know how much we appreciate you all.🙏🏻💗 We are so blessed to have such amazing Frans. We love you guys. ❤️ • Spending the rest of the day in bed thanking God from the for our rainbow baby, @henleygracehehner 👶🏼🌈 Feeling so blessed to have her to hold while my heart aches!🙏🏻 • • #pregnancy #journey #pregnancyloss #awareness #miscarriage #support #momlife #rainbowbaby #momsofinstagram #girlmom #mommyhood #moms #momproblems #pregnancylossawareness #miscarriagesupport #10weekspregnant #1in4 #yourenotalone #angelbaby

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Hehner goes on to glow a distinctive light-weight on the circumstance, encouraging his spouse to take into consideration how her mates could be experience.

“What if you ended up obtaining a wholesome being pregnant and then one particular of your mates experienced this materialize? You would be so delicate to the point. You would be there for assistance,” he claims.

“I fully get that, Doug, it is just challenging,” she replies, incorporating of son Johnathan Edward, whom the spouses lost when Otis was 17 weeks pregnant, “Little boys that ended up owing about Johnathan’s time — how could I not assist but marvel what our Johnathan would be like?”

“These are folks who I’m extremely near with and I’m gonna view them have this wholesome, content being pregnant that I was meant to have far too. And I’m striving not to be anything at all other than just content for them,” Otis carries on candidly.

The challenges are compounded thinking of Otis felt from the get-go that this being pregnant would be distinctive, following struggling the 2016 reduction of her son as very well as a chemical being pregnant late previous summer season.

“I instructed Doug, ‘I know this is a great one particular.’ I felt in my bones that this being pregnant was gonna be all the way,” she recollects. “I just experienced this experience that it was gonna be a good being pregnant. I really do not know why for the reason that I guess I was completely wrong.”

“Then I started off recognizing a very little little bit and that is what took place with Johnathan, our angel newborn in heaven,” Otis clarifies. “That’s how it all started off.”


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